jjz wrote:
The way it sounds to me is two guys go out drinking and smoking weed in the boat, one stands up to take a piss and tragically goes overboard. Other guy can't help him then realizes he is drunk and stoned and doesn't want to deal with the cops so makes up a BS story causing even more pain for the family and wastes probably 100k+ of tax payer money on unnecessary police investigation and trial. Just stupid all around.
A friend of mine who worked for an Ontario police force in the Marine Unit once told me that, sadly, the majority of bodies they pull out of the water fit almost exactly into the description of this tragedy. Intoxication, no life jacket or PFD, and clear evidence that the guy (because 95% of the time the deceased is a male) was standing or hanging off of the boat to take a leak/dump. I myself have fit into that description and feel lucky to have avoided disaster.
Stay safe out there this season.
One thing I wonder from the reports above is, did buddy who stayed in the boat attempt a rescue? Did he gun the motor or swerve the boat as a joke, causing his "buddy" to fall? And how does someone become so seemingly self important as to consider their own "legal safety" ahead of the care and concern of his friend and that friend's family? That seeming self-importance is the most disgusting aspect of this story and leads me to believe that, because of folks like that, our entire humanity has slipped a little.